Showing posts with label Girlfriends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Girlfriends. Show all posts

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Girlfriends!


It never fails if I am watching television or if I am out at an event, there is a woman ripping another woman apart with words. Where does all this catfight come from? This is not any easy question to answer nor is there probably one answer.

One of the things that I love about the Girl Friends Get Together events is how fabulous the women are! The women are genuine in the fact that they come out to be inspired, motivated, and to connect with other women.

There are simple things that you can incorporate into your daily routine that support another woman. Here are a few…

1) Don't hate the player, hate the game. Women tend to get very competitive in looks, love, and career. Stop the "catfight". Focusing on your goal will get you further, than focusing hostility on another woman who you deem as competition. Maybe just maybe, it is the situation that you are angry with and not the person.

2) Give at least 3 women words of encouragement each day. By doing this you will make someone's day. Paying it forward has a high value of return.

3) Refer women in your network to each other. When someone calls you for a referral, start with the names of women in your network. When you refer fabulous women to each other, you also come out shining! Build the "old girls network!" A great way to start is coming to a Girl Friend Get Together event.

4) Keep it real. Stop the gossip and the back stabbing. Also, do not burn bridges. One of the best quotes I have heard is "do not step on someone else's toes; you never know if they will be connected to the ass you have to kiss tomorrow". Be real by any means necessary, even if you do not agree.

Until next time…
~Shoshi

Sunday, January 13, 2008

HAPPY FOUNDERS DAY!!





To my sweet, sweet Sorors!


Cheers to 95 years of excellence!! Let's maintain the tradition, elegance and class set forth by the twenty-two women of distinction!! We are committed to serve!!

~Bettina Lee

04-NYAC-22

OoooooooOOP!!


Friday, January 11, 2008

BARBIE BECOMES AN AKA?!

Oh Geez! LOL.

This is a Pre-Happy Anniversary (Jan. 15) wish to my Sister/Girlfriends of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. If you don't know, you'll be glad to hear that you are getting a Barbie. I have Aunts, Cousins and friends who are AKAs so I love you all as well. I, myself, am a DELTA. :-)

This is a repost from the Sun Times... enjoy!

January 11, 2008
BY CHERYL V. JACKSON mailto:cjackson@suntimes.com
In the midst of a makeover and prepping for the ultimate birthday, the nation's oldest predominantly- black Greek-lettered sorority has turned the head of none other than Barbie.Mattel Inc. will make a collectable Barbie based on Chicago-headquartered Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. Mattel Inc. will make a collectible Barbie based on Chicago-headquarter ed Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc. Mattel sought licensing for the doll -- the first in the company's flagship brand based on any sorority and any predominately black organization -- upon learning that Alpha Kappa Alpha is marking its 100th anniversary this year, said Elizabeth Grampp, director of Barbie collector marketing. "When you pair that milestone with an organization representing an amazing cross section of women who are empowered leaders in any field, it's a real opportunity to introduce the hobby of collecting to a new group of collectors," Grampp said. "It's such a landmark event." The doll will be dressed in an evening gown. Prominent in the ensemble will be pink and green, official colors of the sorority, which kicks off its centennial celebration in
Washington, D.C., Saturday.

Alpha Kappa Alpha was founded Jan. 15, 1908 by students at Howard University. Over the century, the group has inducted more than 200,000 women, including corporate managers, politicians, university presidents, Hull House founder Jane Adams, civil rights activists Rosa Parks and Coretta Scott King, author Maya Angelou and humanitarian Eleanor Roosevelt. The president of the group is a mainstay on Ebony magazine's annual list of most influential blacks in America.

Still, on college campuses members are called "pretty girls," and have accounted for four of the past seven black Miss Americas. The doll will cost about $50, and be available through http://www.barbiecollector.com/, the Barbie Collector catalog and other outlets and partnership with the sorority. Design for the doll, which the sorority selected from three submissions, will be unveiled at the organization' s 100 anniversary celebration next week in Washington, D.C.

The Mattel partnership -- one of several corporate deals -- comes as the organization is in the midst a makeover that puts emphasis of its programs on micro and macro economics, a venture led by president Barbara A. McKinzie, finance director at Chicago's Neighborhood Housing Services. "Economics is the central focus of everything we do," said McKinzie, whose tenure began in 2006. "My vision was to make economics as much of a core competency as service has been to Alpha Kappa Alpha for the 100 years." Last year the group's biennial leadership conference was moved to New Orleans from from a planned cruise to infuse about $5 million into that economy. College chapters are charged with providing computer training to community members. And the approximately 1,000 chapters around the globe are conducting investment and financial literacy workshops for youth, seniors and chapter members. "There's no member whose life this hasn't touched. In terms of mental health, the black family and black males as the weakest link in our economic structure. "When you started to have people view the challenges in their lives through an economic prism then they begin to get it."

After the 500-member Chicago chapter partnered with the city on a small business expo, conducted a financial literacy program for Chicago Public School students, hosted estate planning sessions with seniors and printed tips in monthly internal newsletter, member Willie L. Gray, 70, said she was motivated to finalize the estate planning what she's for years put off. "After we started having these meetings on economics and we met with groups and did estate planning, my head started hurting, I was worries about estate planning so," said Gray, who chaired her chapter's economic initiative. "I feel so much better this year."


The story can also be read here at Business Week. So, perhaps you can buy a doll for your Future AKA, or just hold on to it for yourself.


Until next time...

Be Seen at the Top!

Wednesday, October 3, 2007

Black Girls Rock Awards Ceremony

Now, Toni mentioned a BGR event that is taking place on Friday, but I'm going to give you the breakdown of who is being honored at the awards ceremony, courtesy of a BGR boardmember.
~Bettina

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THE 2ND ANNUAL BLACK GIRLS ROCK! AWARDS SHOW CELEBRATES WOMEN OF COLOR AT STAR-STUDDED GALA

BGR! Teams Up With VH1 During Hip Hop Honors Weekend To Celebrate Exceptional Women Of Color

World renowned celebrity DJ and Philanthropist,
Beverly Bond, has enlisted a cadre of some of the biggest bold faced names in entertainment to join her in recognizing exceptional women of color who have made outstanding contributions in their careers and communities. Esteemed actresses Regina King and Gabrielle Union will join forces as co-hosts of the 2nd Annual 2007 BLACK GIRLS ROCK! Awards, taking place Saturday October 6th, 2007, 8:00 PM in the Allen Room at Jazz at Lincoln Center.

Sponsored by CoverGirl Queen Collection, VH1 Hip Hop Honors, bluhammock music, Jordan Brand, Akademiks, GIANT Magazine and METRO, this year’s growing list of presenters include breakout superstar and COVERGIRL spokesmodel
Rihanna, R&B heartthrob Mario, pop-star Mya, philanthropist/poet/artist Danny Simmons, hip-hop pioneer MC Lyte, R&B princess Ashanti, and Bad Boy recording artist and actress in the upcoming Disney film “Step Up 2,” Cassie. Other presenters include music mogul Andre Harrell, Hip-Hop legend and icon KRS-One, Rain Pryor, NAACP Image Award winning actress, author, MS Avocate and daughter of legendary comedian Richard Pryor, philanthropist and former model Bethann Hardison, “The Wire’s” Sonja Sohn, Discovery Home Channel celebrity chef Marcus Samuelsson and more.

Some of the featured awards & recipients are:
· BLACK GIRLS ROCK! ‘Social Humanitarian Award’-
Susan Taylor, Editorial Director and the driving force behind ESSENCE Magazine, a staunch advocate for the nation's poor and dedicated to moving the Black community forward.
· BLACK GIRLS ROCK! ‘Monument Award’-
The Rutgers Women’s Basketball Team, having endured the highly publicized slight and the media firestorm that followed, held their own and emerged gracefully from what will be remembered as a catalyst for historical change in mainstream media.
· BLACK GIRLS ROCK! ‘Corporate Award’-
Sylvia Rhone, music mogul and pioneer, is largely regarded as one of the most influential female executives in the history of the music business.
· BLACK GIRLS ROCK! ‘COVERGIRL QUEEN Who Got Next Award’ - Newcomer Def Jam songbird
Chrisette Michele, who burst on the scene this year with her raw energy and soulful sound, is scheduled to perform.
· BLACK GIRLS ROCK! “DJ JAZZY JOYCE” Award -
DJ Diamond Kuts who at the age of 24 has already made history by being the first and only female mixer on Philadelphia radio.
· BLACK GIRLS ROCK! ‘Soul Sista Award’ -
Marsha Ambrosius “The Songstress” of the hit making duo Floetry who recently embarked on a solo career is also scheduled to perform.
· BLACK GIRLS ROCK! ‘Creative Visionary Award’ – 5 Time Grammy Winner,
Missy Elliott, is one of the most prominent contemporary female entertainers of our time.
· BLACK GIRLS ROCK! ‘Fashionista Award’ – Designer
Tracy Reese epitomizes “feminine chic” with her eponymous collection, Tracy Reese, and her fanciful line, Plenty, both of which have been fashion favorites since their inception.
· BLACK GIRLS ROCK! ‘Community Outreach Award’ - Fox 5 Investigative Reporter and Hot 97 Street Soldier,
Lisa Evers, a journalist and nationally regarded community activist is dedicated to addressing issues that affect the urban community at large through her weekly talk show.
· BLACK GIRLS ROCK! ‘Soul Brother # 1 Award’ - Hip hop artist,
Common is best known for songs that focus on spirituality, poverty, and other issues to do with social awareness.

Also performing on Lincoln Center’s world class stage will be country crooning newcomer
Rissi Palmer, a rising Black female country star, Jean Baylor formerly of the hit R&B duo Zhane, and J Records rising star Emily King.


“We are proud and humbled to have such strong, beautiful and powerful women involved with this event,” says Beverly Bond Founder and President of BGR! “In light of the media’s constant focus on the negative depiction of Black women it is so very important that Black Girls Rock! takes the time to shine a much needed light on our Sheroes.”
About Black Girls Rock!, Inc.


BLACK GIRLS ROCK! INC. is a 501c3 nonprofit, youth empowerment mentoring organization established for young women of color as a reaction to the often seen negative images consistently imprinted upon women of color expressly in mass media. BLACK GIRLS ROCK! Inc.’s mission is to promote the arts and to encourage positive life changing activity, critical thinking, and dialogue about the images of women in our present day culture. BLACK GIRLS ROCK! seeks to build the self-esteem and self-worth of young women of color by changing their outlook on life, broadening their horizons, and helping them to empower themselves. The name alone is an AFFIRMATION! BLACK GIRLS ROCK! has boldly taken on the crisis of our female youth of color here in America head on and understands the need for positive self-images and a strong sense of awareness. WE SEE SOLUTIONS.

For tickets and more information on Black Girls Rock! and the Black Girls Rock! Awards, visit
www.blackgirlsrockinc.com/awards.


Until next time...
Be Seen at the Top!

Friday, September 28, 2007

Amy Book Launch recap


Hey Chicas,

So sorry for the delay. We were grinding so I don't know HOW I thought someone was going to be able to get pictures. :-( {pictured right: Co-hosts Gayle King, author Amy DuBois Barnett and Kevin Liles. Not pictured co-host Angela Burt-Murray}

BUT, appearances for the book start today and Amy is thrilled. Once we get the full schedule, we will let you know. In the meantime, she will be at the Baltimore Book Festival tonight!


Here are the details:






Mount Vernon Place
600 Block North Charles St.
Baltimore, MD 21201

Ladies’ Night Out Panel Discussion
7:00PM Literary Salon

Back for its 2nd year by popular demand …Featuring complimentary wine and hors d’oeuvres provided by Lebanese Taverna Restaurant.

Moderated by Susan Piver, How Not to Be Afraid of Your Own Life
Panelists include:

Patricia Carlin, How to Tell if Your Boyfriend is the Antichrist
Amy Cohen, The Late Bloomer’s Revolution
**Amy DuBois Barnett, Get Yours! The Girlfriends' Guide to Having Everything You Ever Dreamed of and More!
Amber Madison, Hooking Up: A Girl's All-Out Guide to Sex & Sexuality




Until next time...

Be Seen at the Top!

Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Book, Party, and Notes

Hello Girlfriends Get-Together community:

We told you about it in the August 28th post, but now it is here. Girlfriend Amy DuBois Barnett 's book, Get Yours! The Girlfriends' Guide to Having Everything You Ever Dreamed of and More launched yesterday. Amy is a wonderful client, friend and mentor. We are extremely proud of her accomplishments and wish her much success on this new venture. For a more personal look into Amy's quest or to sign-up for her book tour, visit
www.AmyDuBoisBarnett.com. You can also "Add her as a friend" on MySpace at www.MySpace.com/AmyDuBoisBarnett

Okay, so tonight is her book launch party. It's being hosted by Gayle King, Kevin Liles and Angela Burt-Murray. We've been working on the guestlist for weeks now. We invited just over 600 guests, the capacity of the space is 200, but the RSVP list has soared to over 800. Where did all these random people come from? Hot mess. An email will be sent to all the party crashers to deter them from doing so, but you know how people can be. Special invited GGTers will be on hand to partake in the festivites.

Tomorrow we'll recap the party and post pictures.

Until next time...

Be Seen at the Top!

Friday, August 31, 2007

THE AFRO, A CORPORATE NO-NO?

Please, oh please. Tell us what you think about this. Even the historically black Howard University doesn't allow their business students to wear locks. I personally rock ruff-and-stuff with my afro puffs, but then again, I work in a 'more relaxed' atomsphere. It's interesting that the more artsy-fartsy and creative your work environment, the more you can 'get away with'. As if you aren't conducting real business. 'Oh, go ahead and let them be free.' It usally is the art department or the fashion department who have the liberties and as soon as you have to visit somone in payroll or accounting (Oh, gosh, and if you need help with your computer!) you tend to rethink why you rocked your 'I Love Beeing Brown' t-shirt, Rock & Republic lowrise jeans and cute new Uggs to work. And this is all being thought about in a relaxed environment. Forget a law firm or financial institution; you'd better be booted-n-suited. The article below was taken from The National Law Journal. This isn't new, but it somehow remains an issue. Hmm...


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Cleary Gottlieb has a bad hair day
Talk about a Glamour don't.

Vivia Chen/The American Lawyer August 27, 2007

It seemed like a nice frothy summer treat for some hardworking gals at a hard-driving law firm. Instead of hosting another earnest discussion about client cultivation and leadership, the women lawyers group at Cleary Gottlieb Steen & Hamilton invited an editor from Glamour magazine. The topic: the dos and don'ts of corporate fashion.

First slide up: an African-American woman sporting an Afro. A real no-no, announced the Glamour editor to the 40 or so lawyers in the room. As for dreadlocks: How truly dreadful! The style maven said it was "shocking" that some people still think it "appropriate" to wear those hairstyles at the office. "No offense," she sniffed, but those "political" hairstyles really have to go.

By the time the lights flicked back on, some Cleary lawyers -- particularly the 10 or so African-American women in attendance -- were in a state of disbelief. "It was like she was saying you shouldn't go out with your natural hair, and if you do, you're making a political statement," says one African-American associate. "It showed a general cluelessness about black women and their hair."

The episode also produced a "mixed reaction" along racial lines, says this associate. "Some [whites] didn't understand what the big deal was ... but all the black associates saw the controversy."

Cleary Gottlieb's managing partner, Mark Walker, who heard about the incident from some of the attendees, also saw trouble. Soon after the event, Walker issued an e-mail that denounced the hair commentary as "racially insensitive, inappropriate, and wrong." Calling the beauty advice "appalling," Walker says, "You don't tell people that their physical appearance is unacceptable, when certain characteristics are associated with a racial group." He asks, "What's the alternative? Straighten or bleach your hair?"

As for the identity of the editor, neither Cleary Gottlieb nor Condé Nast Publications Inc. (publisher of Glamour) would say. Indeed, almost all of the half-dozen Glamour editors contacted for this story professed not to have ever set foot in a law firm. "Cleary what?" asked several.

And Walker says he has no idea whether the editor who sparked all this controversy is a well-known fashionista. Not that Walker would know, even if Anna Wintour herself crossed his path. "Who is she?" Walker asks. "I really don't know people in the fashion industry." (If you have to ask, she's the editor of Vogue.)

So did the Glamour editor realize how many feathers she ruffled? Walker says that the speaker was "spoken to by one of the women partners" and that she sent an e-mail apology. "I assume she was oblivious; I doubt she's racist," says Walker. "She wasn't thinking and said something hare-brained."

Or is that hair-brained?



Until next time...

Be Seen at the Top!
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Tuesday, July 31, 2007

ABC's ROBIN ROBERTS: 'I Have Breast Cancer'

After having dealt with personal cancer battles, Girlfriends Get-Together URGES YOU to please check your breasts and encourage your girlfriends, mothers, sisters and everyone else to do the same. Our prayers go out to Ms. Roberts and anyone else who is battling cancer.
~Bettina
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The 'Good Morning America' Anchor Will Seek Treatment in the Coming Months
By ROBIN ROBERTS

July 31, 2007 —

I never thought I'd be writing this. & I have breast cancer.

It all started a few weeks ago. We had gotten the news that our dear colleague and friend Joel Siegel had passed away and we began preparing for our special tribute show for him. I did a piece about Joel's courageous battle with cancer, reporting on the way my friend had lived his life and been such a successful advocate for the importance of early cancer screenings.
That very night when I went to bed, I did a self breast exam and found something that women everywhere fear: I found a lump.

At first I thought, "This can't be. I am a young, healthy woman." Nevertheless, I faced my fear head on and made an appointment to see the doctor. Much as I was hoping the doctor would say it was nothing, she did a biopsy and confirmed that the lump I'd found was indeed an early form of breast cancer.

Hearing the doctor say those words out loud was surreal.

I will be having surgery shortly and follow-up treatment in the months to come. So in the coming months, you will probably notice that I will have my good days and my bad days, but I know I will get through it with the love and support of my family and friends. Diane, Sam, Chris and all of the folks behind the scenes who make this program come to life each and every morning have been so supportive and loving at this challenging time.

To you, our viewers, please know that your thoughts and prayers very much sustain me as they always have each and every morning when I sit in the chair next to Diane and say "Good Morning America." You have always been there for me & and I love you back.
And like my good friend Joel, I can't stress enough how important it is to get screened and checked for all cancers and to do self breast exams. I am so blessed that I found this in the early stages and the prognosis is so promising that my doctor expects me to be flying planes and hanging on to submarines in the middle of the Atlantic and scaling the Mayan Pyramids in no time in the mornings to come.

Now I join the ranks of millions of Americans who are fighting this same battle each and every day. I appreciate YOUR courage and YOUR example. Thank you for showing me the way.

You can send Robin Roberts a personal message by clicking here.

Copyright © 2007 ABC News Internet Ventures



Until next time, be safe, healthy and...

Be Seen at the Top!

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Wednesday, June 27, 2007

LIZ CLAIBORNE DIES AT 78

She defined style and made us look fierce in the workplace. Claiborne was a trailblazer indeed for women's rights and was surely appreciated. The company is having a moment of silence at 9am and Women's Wear Daily (WWD) is running a public statement regarding all her accomplishments.

Girlfriends Get-Together crosses our stilettos and curtsy in her honor.



To learn more, click here.


Until next time...

Be Seen at the Top!


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Monday, June 18, 2007

TRACY REESE SAMPLE SALE!

We were invited to the Tracey Reese Friends & Family sample sale. Girl, it was great. GGT founder Bettina Lee bought 3 dresses for under $300!! That is practically unheard of for Tracey Reese. The Sale opens to the public tomorrow. The invite says all sizes 0-12 and they really did have larger sizes. We floated around the 4's which were in abundance. You better hurry. The sale ends on the 20th.

Enjoy!




Be Seen at the Top!
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Tuesday, May 29, 2007

The World is yours...

Did anyone watch the 2007 Miss Universe last night? We didn’t, but we hear that the show had plenty of drama. Too bad.


Here’s what went down:
During the evening gown competition, Miss USA, Rachel Smith, slipped and fell on her behind and was later booed by Mexicans because of U.S.’s stand on illegal immigrants; Miss Sweden, Isabel Lestapier Winqvist, left the pageant after her country complained that it degrades women (why would they let her get that far in the first place if they didn’t agree?); the officials made Miss Mexico change her regional dress outfit after her original dress, which was decorated with brutal images of rebels in a 1920’s religious revolution being hanged or shot… um, that just sounds like it looks a hot mess AND scary! Protesters really got rowdy by wearing white dresses splashed with fake blood and sashes proclaiming "Miss Juarez", "Miss Atenco" and "Miss Michoacan" to draw attention to places in Mexico where women were killed or sexual abused.

Apparently, people were surprised at Miss Jamaica, the contest's first ‘Rastafarian’ (as per The Province
www.canda.com - do they really know if she practices or that she just wears locks??) and at Miss Tanzania rocking a baldhead. These Girlfriends simply chose not to have their hair fried, dyed and laid to the side.
Happily enough, Miss Japan Rioy Mori became the 56th winner. Her grandmother told her that she just wanted her to win Miss Japan. And look her, going all the way! This is the second time in the 50+ year history of the pageant that Japan won. The first winner (Akiko Kojima) was in 1959. Kudos to them! The majority of winners have been from a Spanish speaking country. At any rate, all races are beautiful. We love you all.

Until next time… be happy in your skin AND…

Be Seen at the Top!



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Monday, May 7, 2007

Friends, how many of us have them?

If grew up in the 80’s you remember that song. ‘Friends… ones we can depend on.’ Go-on ahead and sing it with me. Lol. A friend once told me, “In order to have friends, you must be a friend.” Her voice has stuck with me, even through my hard-headed times of thinking that I can ‘do this by myself.’ And recently, she had to check me. Girl, it was hard to hear. Me. The founder of Girlfriends Get-Together being… unfriendly?!? Well, yes, we all have to be checked sometimes. We get caught up in our lives: appointments, men, job, church, sorority, and did I say men?

Friends are a joyous thing. They can make you laugh, cry, scream, shout and advise you on how your tits look in that shirt. ‘Chile, please. Don’t get that. You look like a $2…” Or my personal motto “Never look into the eyes of a beast.” (That’s when you look at a beast of a guy/person and they inturn look at you, thinking that you are interested in them and proceed to talk your head off or trap you in some sort of vicious dialogue. All the while you are thinking to yourself “Damn, I should have just looked the other way.”) Cherish these friends. Write them a letter (remember how to use a pen, paper and that thing called a stamp?) Call them when you are thinking about them, even if it’s just for a second.

But on the flip side, we have those “friends” that stuck you dry. Those that play the victim, who are needy, who don’t understand that you have a life too and they aren’t the only one who needs a shoulder to cry on. These can be difficult situations as well. But, be strong and deal with them accordingly. At some point in your life, you will need to do a self-assessment. Remember when we did those in grammar and high school to determine whom we would truly be when we grew up? Or when you sorta-kinda like a guy, but feel the need to write out the Pros & Cons list? Well, do this with your “friends.” Yeah, girl, I know; it will be hard. But in the end, you are doing what’s best for you and preserving your mental sanity.

Not that you didn’t know this already, but sometimes, we need another kick in the bumm.
*Pictures were taken at the GGT Washington, D.C. launch event @ Napoleon.

Until next time…
Be Seen at the Top!
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Friday, April 20, 2007

Vagina Power and Penis Power

As per two Girlfriends who passed it along to us, this is a very... interesting video. Alexyss K. Tyler breaks down the significance of women using sex to make decisions. So basically, don't get strung out. Good sex is not the end all and be all. We knew we just had to share. Your mother has been telling you this for years.




Until next time...
Be Seen at the Top! (or maybe on top)


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Girlfriends Get-Together: D.C. Event

We invite you to...
COCKTAILS & CONVERSATIONS

Wednesday, April 25th
6-9PM

Napoleon
1847 Columbia Road NW– Adams Morgan
Washington, D.C.

FREE
*Business attire

To RSVP, dial (646) 246-6329 or email:
RSVP2TME@gmail.com.
Until next time...
Be Seen at the Top!!
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Wednesday, April 11, 2007

the REAL hot 100 Needs Your Vote!

Support our Girlfriend, Gwynn Cassidy. She is doing the damn thing through her innovative organziation, the REAL hot 100.

Last year, the REAL hot 100 celebrated the accomplishments of 100 women from around the country – all of whom are breaking barriers, fighting stereotypes and actively working to make the world a better place.

*Cast your vote in 3 easy steps -- in less than 5 minutes *

To vote:
1. Go to http://www.netsquared.org/user/register and create a new account (if you're already a member, simply login). You must be a registered NetSquared user to vote. They will NOT use your email for any other purposes and you can sign off whenever you'd like.

2. Check your email. In your inbox there will be an email from Net2@techsoup.org with the subject header "Account Details" that will include your account password.

3. Go to http://www.netsquared.org/projects/my-ballot and log into your account with your new password. After you have logged in, vote for the REAL hot 100 and at least 4 other projects.

** When should you vote? **
TODAY! Right now! Voting takes place from April 9th - April 14th.

** Why do we need to win? **
The annual REAL hot 100 list shows that young women are "hot" for reasons beyond looking good in a magazine. By featuring this list of young women from around the country doing incredible things in their every day lives, we're battling the popular notion that all young women have to offer is outward appearances. The annual list is just a first step. Through the REAL hot 100 network, nominees and winners can combine their resources, share strategies and join forces to further their social causes and to affect real change. With the financial and technical resources to create a fully functioning networking website, we can make the online network a reality.

** Want to learn more? **
Read the REAL hot 100's proposal at: http://www.netsquared.org/projects/proposals/real-hot-100 to learn more about the project and our plans for the 2.0 version of our website.

Until next time...
Be Seen at the Top!

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Wednesday, April 4, 2007

Friendships Promote Long Life

Lifted from WebMD, this article agrees with the GGT view of friendship and the importance of having Girlfriends.
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In the study, researchers analyzed data collected from the Australian Longitudinal Study of Aging, which began in 1992.

At the start of the study, nearly 1,500 people over 70 were asked how much personal and phone contact they had with various social networks, including children, relatives, friends, and other confidants (including spouses). The group was monitored yearly for the first four years of the study and then about every three years.

After 10 years of follow-up, researchers found close contact with children and relatives had little impact on the risk of death. But a strong network of friends and confidants significantly reduced the risk of death during the follow-up period.

For example, those older adults with the strongest network of friends were 22% less likely to die during the study than those with the weakest network of good friendships.

Researchers say friends may exert a healthy influence on potentially risky behaviors like smoking and drinking, as well as have important effects on mood, self-esteem, and coping in times of difficulty.


Until next time...
Be Seen at the Top! And take a few of your girlfriends with you. ;-P

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Monday, February 12, 2007

Freedom of Speech


Did you watch the Grammys last night? Child, the Dixie Chicks rocked it. I was so proud of them. Girlfriends won a total of 5 Grammys and captured the top three awards: Record of the Year, Song of the Year and Album of the Year. I mean, dang! Their song “Not Ready to Make Nice,” umm, umm, umm. That song is good (in my Sexual Chocolate/Coming to America voice.) Basically, the song says “I’m NOT sorry” in response to the uproar caused in 2003 when the group’s feisty lead singer, Natalie Maines, made a sort of antiwar comment to London concertgoers: “Just so you know, we’re ashamed the president of the United States is from Texas.” They are from Texas! You know the rednecks were mad. But death threats? Wasn’t member Emily Robison pregnant? Is it that serious? Who is reeeally proud of Bush? Especially now.

Bashing Bush is not what this entry is about. It’s just amazing how people will turn their backs on you and will try to shut you down just because you don’t follow the rest of the group or because so don’t do status quo. People were canceling tour dates and really messing with their money. I mean, why have the constitutional right of Freedom of Speech anyway? This is an old debate. ‘You can speak your mind, but just not against The Man or anyone of power.’ I mean, even in the New York Times today the title read “Defiant Dixie Chicks Are Big Winners at the Grammys” Defiant? Yada, yada, yada, bite me. Each time they won, Maines had a sarcastic remark to make; antagonizing the haters. I just smiled.

We as Americans need to get our minds right. We are more concerned with who is Anna Nicole Smith’s baby-daddy than with the fact that not all children in America have healthcare; that most of the Katrina victims STILL don’t have homes; that our public school system sucks (If you watched the Grammys, then you saw the public school students rip that a wonderful duet thanks to their Grammy endorsed music program) and whether or not we are ready to have a Black Man as President or a White Woman (and really listen to what they stand for, not just because they are Black or Female.) Don’t get me wrong, I like the glitz, glamour and gossip too, but all that mess isn’t what defines me. I’m not perfect and at times I need to get my mind right about certain things, but in general, making a Dixie Chick statement won’t make me stick my head in the sand. How many of us just want to make nice??
Until next time...
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